Are we wrong on this !??!!

So I’ve been on maternity leave since the day my son was born. I have been planning and trying to figure everything out, from transportation to baby sitter. I let our family friend know 2 months in advance to see if she can take care of our son and of course we would be paying her. She said yes. I’ve been reaching out to see when we could bring the baby over. She replied, I told my daughter to let you know that I can’t take care of your son the other night you were here. Mind you this was 2 MONTHS ago... she doesn’t want to watch the baby because my husband said that he doesn’t want anyone to be taking pictures of our baby. Is that wrong of us to not want someone taking pictures of him?!? He didn’t mean it with bad intention