Checking for dilation

Carly

I’m a FTM, 36W4D. They have started asking me if I want to be checked.. I said no last week and again this week. Im glad I have the right to refuse it, but I’m also curious..if I do decide I want to I’m kinda scared about it. My doctor said it is uncomfortable. Most of what I have read on here and online is that they aren’t really necessary.. give me your thoughts? Has anyone chose to not to be checked at every single appt until going into labor?