High chance 1/10th

Natasha

Had my screening at 13 weeks to be told my baby could have a problem due to neck being 3.6mm to then have another scan 2 days later to be told the neck is only 1.7mm and that the first measurements where don't wrong and that the baby is healthy and all measurements are in normal. To then today to be told the bloods I took put me in 1/10th high risk going on my bloods and the first scan (botched). She was going on about my age (I'm only 29), my weight which is healthy weight I'm a size 6! And other factors. I have been booked in for a NIPT but this whole experience is just stressful I wouldn't be having this problem if my first scan was done right and I'm definitely going to be changing hospitals has anyone else had this problem and everything is fine? The thing that has got to me is the fact they said my baby was healthy and normal so I told my kids about the pregnancy and now this. They are looking forward to the baby how do I tell them if something truly is wrong ☹️