Hi so last month I got herpes and the infection has gone away and I’ve gone on with my normal life but every once in a while I get sad and lonely and feel broken and like a part of me was robbed how do you deal with this feeling of loneliness and the fact that you have to explain this to every future partner how do I go on knowing I can’t leave this one in the past that this is a part of me. Someone with herpes who’s had it please respond I’m losing it and I need someone who knows to explain to me how to deal with these emotions because all of the people I’ve been able to talk about this are just saying you have to just deal and move on it is what it is but that’s not good enough and they can’t possibly understand what this feels like how different everything is now