Husband uninterested in sex

I am a mother of 5 month old. I had complications in prenancy and we abstained from beginning of 9th month till 8 weeks postpartum to the extent of very less kissing and hugs.

I am very sensual person, i love to get touched, kissed & sex. I am more of a filmy persin, i want my man to be cheesey and flirty, do some romantic stuff for me. For past two months his job got stressful and with baby we barely get time for sex. We live in a small apartment and with relatives around to help with baby we cant get any quite time. Its starting to drive me crazy. He stopped initiating anything, not even a kiss. My hormones are rocketing and i want him in bed more than ever. I got tierd of constantly asking him for attention and told him, i will masturbate myself from now on. He is even fine with it.

This lack of sex and touch is getting me depressed, hurted and alone. Till i got pregnant we used to go to bed together, cuddles in bed and some talking. These days nothing. All we talk are either his work or baby. I love my baby and husband more than anything in the world, but i want him to talk romantically to me too. I wven asked him to atleast spend friday or Saturday nights with me and this friday and Saturday he just slept by the time i got into bed. I am frustrated and i dont know who i can talk these too or how to convince him that i need romance and sex in life.

Update1:

My husband is working in my room, just sent this text to my husband and i got no reply.

Text:

You are not meeting my needs. I am not satisfied and i am frustrated (period). I married you because i liked your flirting and romanticism. I am getting neither.

Update 2: I accept the text was abrasive. But it was my last frustrated attempt of talking to him about this for 3 months. I did everything by i can, told him i want our relationship to be romantic, kisses and hug here and there, said i want to talk and spoke to him about this, lingerine, started sex. In all these he just brushed me off, always the same answers “ I am not in mood, may be later, not interested, just and hug and sleep”.

And my text worked 😜