We bottle feed our three month old. My partner works mon-fri (currently from home most of the time) and I’m a stay at home mum to both our baby and our 2 yr old daughter.

We fell out tonight as I told him how tired I was getting up at anytime between 12 and 3 to feed the baby every single night of the week. I said that I appreciate that he works but would it hurt for him to get up on a Friday or Saturday night just so that I get one night of full sleep as it’s making me feel miserable.

He told me that he works and I’m ungrateful. I’m not trying to be ungrateful, I know how lucky I am to be able to stay at home but I just want some help at night just once a week. He does a lot during the day when he’s with the kids so I’m not saying that he’s lazy but I’m just struggling to function properly.