Abusive? Or just angry?
So growing up, I’ve been around some abusive people, mostly my moms boyfriends. Both physically and mentally, that seems to be her type. Maybe she thinks she deserves that kind of person, maybe because she can’t figure out how to live on her own. Maybe because she’s afraid of living on her own. I don’t know.
But me and my mother have a pretty estranged relationship, we talk but barely.
So I was just on a call with her and her and her husband were out for lunch.
Backstory: her and her husband have been married for a few years, when they were on a break, she was messing around with one of her friends (we can call her friend bob)
So “bob” and her are still friends, not messing around, but friends. She’s back with her husband.
So “bob” called her while she was out to lunch with her husband, I’m assuming they talk pretty regularly since they’re friends.
Her husband got upset “bob” called and I’m assuming they didn’t talk much about it before she called me.
I answered the phone the first or second ring and I heard “because my daughter is more important than this conversation.
Ok, so we talk about other things
Near the end of our conversation I heard:
“Here’s my card don’t spend more than $100 I’m leaving just go you’re making me Ill. I literally feel sick to my stomach just looking at you. Go. No. Just go”
And this was in public.
So I hear my mom sniffle and say “ok” and then tell me “ok I’m gonna go I’ll call you tomorrow”
Edit: I don’t blame him for being mad. I do, however, don’t like the fact he’s talking to her like that in public, and I don’t know what happens behind closed doors
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