How to tell the guy you’re seeing you want to be eaten out?

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This is the guy I’ve been talking to for a year. I know he wants me to be his girl since he’s mentioned it but due to covid and not being able to see him that much in person he hasn’t officially asked yet. I’ve only been with him in person a few times and each time we’ve had sex. He’s the first guy I’ve been sexual with. He’s cum everytime but I haven’t and I just want him to go down on me but I’m wayyy to shy to tell him to so basically it’s just whatever he tells me to do during sex which I listen to him. I usually let him take control which I like but sometimes I end up riding him but he does NOT last long at all! It feel like 5-10 min each position and we do 2-3 positions each time we have sex. How do I tell him I want him to go down on me so I can get off too?
Edit: If I’m going to tell him, how should I say I wanna be eaten out without being so direct?

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When it comes to sex and relationships you need to use your words. 
“I want to talk about our sex life. While I’m enjoying the sex, I also need more. I’m not able to orgasm from penetration alone- like most women- and need foreplay to orgasm. Is there a reason you haven’t gone down on me? I enjoy oral sex.”
Don’t have sex with someone you can’t communicate with and who doesn’t care about your pleasure.

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Take his head and put it down there during sex 🤷‍♀️ He will get the picture 😉

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If you're too shy to tell him to eat you out, and telling him is the only way he'll know, then you can't do anything. 🤣

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You’ve been talking for a year and he hasn’t made you his girlfriend yet? Please move on

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Do you perform for him orally ? Like do you give him head ?

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you can always text him or mention it when you have a sexual conversation. it’s important and healthy to discuss that stuff

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I would just mention it. I would say “sex is great, but I can’t really finish. I need foreplay in order to orgasm, so if you’re comfortable with it, I would like to be eaten out”. Also if you don’t want to have this conversation face to face, maybe text him or type it in a note and then send it to him when you call or FaceTime. I do that to my boyfriend a lot. I asked my bf for more foreplay because sometime I wasn’t ready and it would hurt for a little bit. I sent him a screenshot of a note and he was like ok will do. And then he does a lot of foreplay now. If I tell him to slow down or to stop for a second, then he will and help me out lol. Good luck and make sure you communicate

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For those saying she should tell him or put his head down ther during sex,have u consider he not been the gaving head type?😂 i feel if he was he would’ve given it since.

How to tell the guy you’re seeing you want to be eaten out?

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