WWYD?

* don’t want to sound covid crazy, just want to get other people’s opinions on how to be safe lol*

I am 33 weeks pregnant as of today with our rainbow baby. This Sunday, my boyfriend wants us to drive a couple hours away to see his 16 YO sister. (They have different dads and both live near their dad, as their dads were the ones who have/had custody of them). He wants to spend all day there. Like 12-8. But I feel unsure about it and don’t know how to handle it.

We planned to visit last Saturday but when we called, she said she was currently quarantining bc of exposure to someone who tested positive. We asked about the details but the call cut out really bad so we couldn’t hear her.

I was thinking about it more tonight bc I was watching the news and the numbers in our area are trending upwards and the new strains are starting to spread. It makes me nervous to visit his sister right now bc I feel like we already kinda push it. I live with my parents and 4 siblings (dad and brother work, sister goes to school, both my sisters spend time with friends), he lives with his dad (he is in other people’s homes bc of work), his great aunt, his aunt and grandma, his brother and his brother’s little family (his brother works and his brother’s girlfriend still parties and such), and my grandparents (who just traveled) came over unannounced. We’ve already had so many scares and so much stress from this pregnancy that I do not wanna get sick on top of it. And I want to finish moving by the middle of next month at the latest.

The only issue with bringing it up is that his siblings are a sensitive topic. His family has always told me stories of how he basically took care of them bc when his mom had custody, she neglected all of them and he was the oldest. Then they all got separated and it’s caused a lot of trauma for him. I don’t know what to do