Unreasonable?

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So i work from home with a rotating shift, this week my shift is 930 start time, i get up at 915.
Well my husband is supposed to be to work at 10am and this morning i was working and seen it was 1016 so i went and woke him up and he blames me for not getting up in time/ not waking him up sooner 
I explained im working not watching the clock, i woke him up soon as i seen the time then he went on to tell me how he went down to 3 alarms because when he had 5 it made me mad (it woke me up every 5-10 min- which is an issue when my shift is later however I mentioned it being a problem several times and he never changed it so idk I believe it was for me) but still i dont see its my fault he will be late to work and is worried about getting fired bc he is frequently late. 
He is an adult! He says he has no1 to take care of him but me... and i do .... like he doesn’t see he is being unreasonable or believe and i feel its also unappreciative! What do you ladies think? How can i get him to see reality to this?

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I think he's absolutely ridiculous for trying to hold you accountable for HIS actions.

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That’s on him. He needs to learn to get his ass up instead of hitting snooze. Welcome to the adult life pal 😏

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The reality is that his screw up is not your fault. He needs to take responsibility for his own actions. You can and should help him, but he doesn’t get to blame you

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He’s a grown man, not a child. He doesn’t need anyone to “take care of him”. He should be responsible enough to take care of himself. It’s not your job to wake him up like he’s a toddler and if he gets fired that’s his fault. Does he ever bother to wake you up for work if he thinks you’re going to be late? He’s got some pretty ridiculous expectations honestly.

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He is a grown man and it's his responsibility, yes all fair and right. Only the problem is that if he gets fired it most probably impacts on you as well, for that reason I suggest you try to wake him up when ever he is running late. 
My husband knows no time it's a nightmare to keep him on time, so I make sure he is on time just to make our life easier.

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I definitely think he’s responsible for getting himself up. But why didn’t he just get up at 9:15 when you got up? He had to be at work in 45 mins at that point.

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It is not your job to wake him up unless he wants to wake up when you do. Maybe he needs yo start going to sleep earlier if he cant wake up or get tested for sleep apnea if he snores.

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Thank you all for your responses .. what can i do?
How the hell do i get him to see this isnt on me?
I do help ans wake him when i see he is not up and needs to be but fact is im working and am not sitting watching the clock!

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Hes a grown man.

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Is he a grown up? Yes? Then he is the only one responsible for himself.

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