Got called pregnant
Just wanted to share this story with you because I'm baffled rn!
I was sitting on the beach and had the most awkward conversation of my life. This man that I saw maybe twice in my life (he is my neighbour's friend) walked up to me and basically this is how the conversation went:
Him: So, you doing alright? (at first I thought it was a genuine question because I had knee surgery a few days ago)
Me: Yeah, it's all good.
Him: You're not feeling nauseous?
Me: Why would I feel nauseous?
Him: Well, because you're pregnant!
Me: What? I'm not pregnant!
Him: I thought you were. You look pregnant.
Wtf?! I told him that's quite a rude thing to say and he shouldn't go around telling women they looked pregnant if he wasn't sure they were, because he basically just told me I look fat 😭
He then just walked away saying how he hasn't seen me in a long time (idk what that has to do with anything tho). He didn't say anything like I'm sorry or maybe that he thought I was someone else, he just called his friends and left!
I have no idea what made him say that because I certainly don't look pregnant, so I don't know where he got that idea from. But I don't think I'll be able to forget what he said to me for awhile.
On the other side I'm glad I had the courage to tell him what I think because usually I would just let these things slide, but I felt like I need to tell him that's a rude thing to say!
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.