Pathetic

I think I chose the wrong husband and father to my children. So my husband was never like this before he always acted like he was on the same page as me. Well I am now pregnant with our first child and according to him he is going to let our children do whatever they want. Because his mom let him vape when he was in school and let's his 15 yr old sister party so he apparently thinks thats gonna be the way he is going to parent. I am not like that and I am not gonna let my children do "whatever they want" thats not how it works. So I told him that I will 100% choose my child and my child's safety and future over him of course he is pissed off and pouting in the bed room which is fine because I don't care he sounds like he is not gonna be the parent that he pretended he was gonna be before I got pregnant and im not gonna set and be apart of it.