Break up

So me and my boyfriend got together and three days after we broke up. It just didn't feel right for me and idk why. Then a couple weeks later we got back together but then we broke up Thursday. We broke up because he is gonna focus on himself and everything. It didnt hurt the first time, but it hurts like heck this time. I have no idea how to get over it at all. We agreed on being friends Thursday, but we litterally havent talked since we broke up when we use to talk every single day even after the first time we broke up. Is there a reason he isnt texting me? Does he hate me? I feel like he may hate me or he just doesnt want me in his life anymore. So my question is to anyone out there who had this happen, does he want to leave me...or is he just copeping with the breakup still?