Worried it’s menopause

Hi ladies,

We have tried so hard to conceive this month & I’m currently 3 days away from my period due date.

My boobs are huge (they seem bigger than normal around this time) but the things that are concerning me is that I’ve had absolutely no cm since ovulation & I’m suffering with hot flashes/night sweats for about a week and then feeling cold shortly afterwards.

I also had some spotting yesterday after I’d been to the loo when I wiped so think af is probably on her way. I’ve got 2 bfn so far.

I’m 41 and think this might be the end for me 😢