Tv Volume at night

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Okay guys help me understand..... so my boyfriend has to have the tv turned up at night so he can listen to it while he falls asleep... meanwhile I prefer silence. Now I have tried to adjust and train my body to learn to fall asleep with noise in the background. Well tonight he falls asleep in the living room with the tv volume turned to the max... so once he falls asleep I go turn it down because I have 3 kids and our home is not that spacious. Well he gets up and comes to the bedroom where the TVs on but turned down because I’m watching videos on my phone... why is this man mad saying my phone too loud when I clearly turned it down when he walked in the room... I never do anything right