Anyone feeling a lot of negativity?

This is my first pregnancy and I feel like people are constantly so negative. They’ll ask me my plans on breastfeeding/ epidural/ whatever and when I say either yes I plan on breastfeeding as long as it works out I’m always met with how their experience was crap and it didn’t work out. I have absolutely nothing against formula feeding whatsoever and if I need to use it I more than gladly will. But I feel it’s important to me as an individual to at least try to breastfeed. I constantly see online how people shame formula using moms but for me it’s been the complete opposite and am constantly told it’s not going to work out, it’s so hard, it doesn’t make a difference in your childs health. I’m just really over people instantly discouraging me. I’ve also decided I want to try not to have an epidural. Again I have nothing against them and it I go in and decide last minute I want it then I’ll get it but it’s just a personal preference and I’m again constantly met with people saying things like “you don’t get an award for doing it without” 😒 like I’m aware but I’m doing it for myself. Not to mention I’m never the one to bring these things up, people are constantly asking and when I answer I’m just hit with their negativity.