Vent.

My fiancé and I have a toddler & are pregnant with number two. His job ended in November, and he hasn’t worked since. It’s been five months. He’s passed up a few job opportunities and say he’s just not motivated to work right now. Alright, cool. I was fine with him taking a break, but like I said, its been five months. We currently live in a two bedroom apartment, and obviously need to upgrade to a house or at the LEAST a three bedroom apartment before baby #2 is here. We cannot move without proof of income. (I’m not working, I was let go when my job found out I was pregnant. Illegal, yes. But even if I was working, I wouldn’t make enough for the bills or to get approved anywhere else.)

He has an account that had 38k in it for college but he didn’t go to college so it was just in savings. That’s why he has no motivation to work, but he is blowing through that money. On pointless things. On rent and bills as well. Idk how much is left in that account but I know it’s nowhere near 38k anymore.

Our relationship is hitting a wall because I’m TIRED of being with him every second of everyday. I am used to him working & me getting everything done around the house / taking care of the baby.

I guess I just wanted to vent. I want out of this apartment and into a 3 bedroom. I can’t even buy anything for our daughter until we move because we have no storage space. He’s not even making an effort to find another job.

Also yes, he knows I want him to go back to work. He just says “I know I’ll be working soon” & then continues to make no effort.