Any parenting advice tips? Supernanny help!!!

We are doing arts & crafts, ages four-five I told him to wait for me but he got tired of waiting I told him after I brush my teeth we will start he colored two eggs then quit and it gets frustrating he was excited to do the activity but he was moving around then decided he was done.

Yesterday I told him to wait in the house while I warmed up the car; to stay with his Grandmother in the house I would be back a few minutes he hit the door threw a temper tantrum started crying his grandmother tried to explain to wait be patient but it's like I don't understand why all the fuss if in a few minutes we are leaving to go out have fun.

Also we have problems with obedience he grabbed the newspapers and threw them all over the floor, sometimes will stand on the chairs,and stand on the table, couch, will slam doors, will start being loud, running around in the house how can I correct the behavior