Would you choose a weekend all to yourself or a weekend with friends?

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I’m 33 weeks pregnant and have the option to spend a weekend away with my husband and a few of his closest friends. I love his friends and their wives/partners (they are my friends too) and it sounds like it could be fun, however I’m tempted to stay behind and just enjoy a weekend alone as I know there will be a lot of  drinking and staying up late and I’m just so tired and sore and don’t think I could keep up😅 
I also don’t know when I’ll have another opportunity to have complete alone time again once the baby arrives. 
What would you choose to do? I don’t want to miss out on the fun, but I’m sort of leaning towards staying home because I figure in the future, we can always bring baby with us to fun things, but I probably won’t have the opportunity to have the house all to myself again.

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That’s a tough one.
I would honestly love both.
But I have fomo big time 😂
I think I’d end up going and trying to make some memories and rally with everyone.
🤷🏻‍♀️

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Honestly I would go, bc you would be sharing time with your husband,  you could always spend one of the days on your own. Bc after baby's here alone time with the hubby is rare

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Can you go and just skip out on some of the activities for some alone time?

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I’m a really introverted person and right away I was stay home!! LOL but if I really think about it I would go, once the baby is here it’s harder to find time out friends than it is to find time alone. Babies sleep all the time and you’re gonna find more time on your hands for yourself than you realize. One last night out could probably do you good and if it’s an option you could always go and leave early??

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Absolutely positively go alone with your husband.  Itll likely be a little while before you get to have alone time again so do a babymoon instead

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Stay home alone 100%

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I would choose to stay home but I always appreciate the quiet, down times.

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Due to COVID concerns Id stay home (unless you and everyone else going on the trip is vaccinated), but in a normal year Id probably want to go with my husband. Once you have the baby you’ll be home a lot more and you might regret not taking advantage of your freedom more. When I was pregnant with my first we flew all over the place, ate at fancy restaurants every weekend, and enjoyed as much time with our friends as we could and I don’t regret it. This time we’ve been stuck at home the whole time due to COVID and it sucks!

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When I was pregnant I really disliked being around people drinking, I’d get easily annoyed and I’m tired so I feel like I’d ruin it for people haha I’m a social drinker so maybe it was jealousy 🤣 but a weekend alone sounds nice, I’d probably order pizza and my favorite snacks and watch trashy reality tv 🤣 I think in my 2nd trimester I could’ve handled it but by the third trimester I was tired 24/7!!

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Id stay back ! Some RNR maybe.
once the baby comes its all hectic , hubby time is great but me time is way more important sometimes.
After all you cant pour from an empty cup right, rejuvenate a little with some peace and calm .

Would you choose a weekend all to yourself or a weekend with friends?

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