Is it just me😅

What I hate the most about play dates with my other mom friends is when the kids come up and say something or ask a question and they just ignore them and say “don’t interrupt the grown ups” or something of that sort there’s been a few times when my son walked up to me and ask if he can have a juice box or a snack or maybe he wants to go outside and play and the other mom that I’m hanging out with will say the same thing to my child and idk it just bothers me. I’ve always been big on gentle parenting and making sure that my child feels heard and definitely never ignore him on purpose or tell him that I don’t have time for him that I’m busy, I’ve completely cut some of my friends off just because of how they treat their kids, I just don’t want that energy around mine I don’t believe yelling and hitting and all that works really at all my son has always been a good boy he’s almost 4 and I never experienced “terrible twos” he’s good at telling me how he feels and when he’s upset. Some people say he’s spoiled but I don’t believe in spoiled he knows that no means no and when I say no that there is a good reason because I have never said “because I said so” idk I’m just wondering if anyone else has the same problems lol it’s a little frustrating because I can’t tell them how to raise their kids what works for some might not work for others but there’s no such think as a bad kid they just need to be taught.