Should I be upset?

Question

My boyfriend has this friend that’s a girl which is perfectly fine with me. I’ve never met her! But when she found out we were dating she started texting him saying “I see why you haven’t checked on me in awhile now” & he was telling me now that him & I are together she comments hearts and stuff on his pictures on Facebook. He said she does that out of disrespect because she’s “jealous” & she thinks she should be the most important girl in his life although they have never been together! Just friends. But I notice when she comments hearts etc he will react to them with a heart or the new heart emoji on Facebook & now I’m thinking that if he has such a problem with her commenting those things on his post then why would he react to each one of them? Like the more he reacts the more she will think it’s okay. It’s starting to bother me, but I don’t know if I should let it? We have been together for almost a year & we have a baby on the way.

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This sounds like high school drama lol get rid of him and they both disappear 🤷🏼‍♀️ nobody has time for this

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GIRL THIS HAS GOTTA STOP RIGJT NOW ESPECIALLY WITH A BABY ON THE WAY!! Please god frick no. He should not be sending hearts to any other woman. Her acting like that and being disrespectful he should cut her off. Please no you deserve so much better than that. Tbat girl gotta go I don’t care I’m mad for you.

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He should have the common sense to know better, you have a baby on the way, he should respect the relationship and so should she. Either he needs to talk to her or you do. She needs to back off and I know her place, she obviously has feelings for him and feels that she’s the only woman in his life, that’s jealous, insecure, possessive, red flag city. And if he doesn’t realize that she’s trying to guilt him and use manipulation, that you’re not checking on me because you’re too busy with someone else, that’s toxic as well. He needs to cut her off. The relationship comes first, the baby comes first, and he needs to wake up and realize that you and the relationship are the priority not this petty shit with her. If he can’t figure that out, then you need to drop him. Have a sit down conversation with the two of them. Put them both in their place, and if they don’t cut the crap, you walk away. I am a female who has a male best friend, but I do not interfere in their relationship, they have two children, I am the children’s godmother. I literally buy them toys every holiday, holiday meals, I send diapers for the baby, I do not get involved in the relationship, I do not interfere, I do not try to break them up. she didn’t like me in the beginning, but she got used to me, because she realize I’m not a threat, I don’t try and make a move on her man, I don’t do any of those things. I know my place, I am just a friend. I am family, I spoil their kids rotten, I am friends with her, I am friends with him, sometimes I talk to her more than I talk to him. This chick has feelings for him and you need to realize that. And either the two of them have feelings for each other, and you are the third wheel, or this relationship isn’t gonna work out, if things don’t change. If she wants to remain in his life, she needs to cut the crap or get rid of that toxic ass bitch. Everything about her is toxic manipulation, guilt, jealousy, possessiveness, control, you name it and if he doesn’t realize this, a d if he tries to throw it at you that its your insecurity, that’s messed up. if she tries to play the victim and feels like she’s losing her best friend and he chooses her over you that’s messed up, either you walk away and they can have each other, or she needs to walk away and cut the crap. If she’s going to be his friend she needs to act like a friend and stop trying to act like his girlfriend sabotage and interfere and try and ruin the relationship or manipulate him in control him etc.￼￼￼

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Get rid of him , instead of him telling you what she does . He should check her .

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