Advice

Okay so me and my boyfriend have decided to get our places...he get him a place I get me a place. Only because we wanna do right by God and shacking is wrong. Now should I get a car first or my place first.? Right now I stay with my brother girlfriend helping with the new born while my brother is overseas. Now we don’t know when he’s coming home but it’s soon and I do not want to move back in with my mom and I can’t stay with me brother and his family. They have a two bedroom apartment and two kids. I would be in the way and I will also feel like a bum.! My question for y’all is what should I do car first or place first.?