Disappointed

SR

I’ve always loved coming to this page because the fertility community is one of the best. But when I posted about my

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and a picture of my test wondering about others who have been in my shoes and looking for advice, I got told that I “triggered” her and she’s so sick of seeing stuff like that on this page. I’m sorry if I offended anyone, that’s never my intention, but what part of my post wasn’t “medically-assisted fertility” based?

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is medical assisted fertility. It really hurt me because we’re a special group that unless you’ve had troubles getting pregnant or have losses, others have no idea. I would never, even if I’m struggling, treat someone that way. Who says that just because someone has a positive test, their struggle is over? I’ve had 5 pregnancies and only 1 live birth. So when I get a positive test, I don’t get excited like everyone else. I get terrified that it’s going to end badly. It saddens me when the posts that get the most attention are bad news posts and the ones that have maybe 1 or 2 likes is someone succeeding. We need to remember that we may not all be on the same chapter but we all are in the same book.❤️ I pray none of you have someone make you feel bad or sad about your dream finally coming true.