What in the world?

My husband got mad at me today because I told him I didn’t want to have another female so certain things to me while he watches.

So instead we went to a huge adult store that had private couples rooms. We went in one and locked the door, just me and him. The place was thick with smoke and I couldn’t breathe (really bad allergies and smoke smothers me!) so I wasn’t comfortable. Plus right before we locked the door, 2 random men followed us down the hallway. Whether they were employees or not I’m not sure; but it made me feel sketchy. So anyway, my husband and I had sex while he sat on a chair for a bit, because I didn’t want to lay on the table/“bed” they had in the room lol...then I gave him a bj. We walked out, went back to the main entrance, and he was like let’s just leave. So I thought he was alright. Nah. He immediately starts saying “you’re being so weird” “I bet the singles booths are more fun with glory holes” then when we got home he said that I was just not any fun because I wasn’t into it and that he doesn’t know how I’m gonna go to a swingers club party, (he wanted us to go try to find a woman at one so he could live his fantasy out of watching me with another) I keep telling him I’m not comfortable with it and he gets raging mad. Like, telling me he deserves to see his fantasy play out. He still wants me to hire a hooker to bring to a hotel, too. I am terrified of diseases and hello, police! I don’t know why he won’t let this go. He is so incredibly sweet and then when I tell him I’d rather not, he’s ready for divorce. It’s horribly bizarre! Husbands should want their wife comfortable, right?