I’m so salty because I spent years being insecure about my vagina

When I was 14, I became sexually active. I wasn’t having sex, just being sexual if that makes sense. The first boy that ever saw my vulva made fun of it. It was the first vagina he had seen outside of porn, and he made me feel so bad about it that I spent years insecure about it. Making sure to never show it to anyone like I would go above and beyond just at my friends houses to never change infront of them. Like you wake up the next day after a sleep over and change into different clothes in the same room-girls don’t care. But I was scared they’d catch a glimpse and go out of my way to change in another room.

I went to a gynecologist at 18, and busted out into tears because I was asking about plastic surgery after my exam because I thought I was deformed and my gynecologist looked at me like omg and sat down and got eye level and said “there is NOTHING wrong with you. You have a perfectly normal and healthy anatomy. You do not need plastic surgery because there’s nothing to fix. If some boy made you feel insecure he’s dumb and you can tell him to call me.” Straight up in defense mode over me lol.

After she had her talk with me I gained a lot of confidence and never worried about it.

As I got older, I realized that I’m way normal. Like extremely normal, girls stay the same and change infront of eachother. I’ve been to all women parties where they do the same.

I look very similar to all of these women. My gynecologist was absolutely right, it was insane to think something was ever wrong with me.

I think about that sometimes, about how I’m completely normal down there and he made me feel HORRENDOUSLY deformed when really he was just an absolute moron that knew nothing about vaginas. His only education was porn.