We feel stuck

Our next step is going to be IVF, but my husband said financially we wouldn’t be able to do it until at least end of next year. I felt so defeated when he told me that. He also said since we have to pay out of pocket for everything we would only do one round, so that added to my fear of never having kids.

We don’t like the idea of a sperm donor at this point since it’s all really new. As well as adoption. Something in my heart still has some hope maybe we will get luckily naturally considering he has BT.