My last relationship was toxic, other guys sliding in. I need help!

My ex fiancé broke my heart. We were in a toxic relationship where we fought anytime I brought up my feelings about him doing these things...

-Gaming right after work until he is so tired he just goes to sleep and spends no time with me.

-never celebrate my birthdays or special days except to have sex.

-gaming with other girls all night long and talking to them.

-buying girls gifts and presents but not me.

-calling out other girls on social media’s beauty.

-using my sexuality as an escape to why we “parted ways”.

-using my sexuality and luring another girl into our relationship and telling other people I met the girl and I initiated the poly.

Anyway...

After he broke up with me and broke my heart I got news I’m moving to Cali which *YAY*

NEW CHAPTER NEW ME!!

So... This isn’t where it ends...

He breaks my heart, lies on social media to everyone that I got with some girl and forced him To be in a poly (at gun point obviously 🙄) [JOKING] blocks me and runs away without giving me closure!

Tormented for only three days because that boy wasted FOUR YEARS OF MY LIFE !! (And He ain’t worth more than that)

Some really cute M A N who treated me right and was ONLY a friend.... (I know) *dramatic pause.*

WELL THIS FRIEND, this male, walked back in and asked how I was doing.

“Oh hey yeah my ex just dumped me :’)”

“Oh... shit... *he calls me*”

(This friend is never online or on social Media so he didn’t see any breakup and I didn’t tell anyone on social media anyway.)

Me:

*answers* me: hello? 🥺

Friend: “how are you doing? Are you okay? Are you safe? Do you wanna talk about it?”

*me, completely sobs.*

Friend: “hey it’s okay, Jane. It’s okay. You are gonna be okay, he was a jerk. You are amazing, and beautiful, and so down to earth and he has missed out on an amazing soul...”

And so forth you get it. This friend has been my friend for almost 5 years but we are long distance online. He’s been calling me everyday and telling me how beautiful I am and giving me the time. He lives in California and SHOCKER I’m moving there. He wants to take me on a date but I am too in shock from my relationship as it happened a month ago. He says he will wait.

My plan is December, we’ll see 👀 .

I really want to know want you guys think? I’m 27 I’m so tired of hooking up and I thought my ex was my soul mate and he promises me lies so I guess not. I am chronically ill, so I need to have children now or never and I just don’t wanna feel like I’m rushing or rebounding. We are JUST friends and have boundaries

-no kissing

-no sleeping in the same bed

-no trying anything

-no seggs

And so forth anything that isn’t friendly... Anyway, let me know... am I crazy or is this a sign from life?