How would you feel?

I’m 8 months pregnant. My husband and I have a toddler. And our marriage is rocky due to most of the mistakes he’s made. He’s cheated, doesn’t help out, not romantic, doesn’t think of me at all. He told me today he didn’t buy me a gift for Mother’s Day and if we could use our date at the Cheesecake Factory last weekend as my Mother’s Day date? I got upset. Not because money wasn’t spent but because he’s messed up so much and had time to plan something but chose not to. I told him he could’ve bought paint and put my daughters foot prints to make me have something memorable for when she’s older. We have money so that’s not an issue. We aren’t rich but live comfortably. And I don’t want to hear “why are you with him”. I just want to know if I’m acting like a brat or spoiled as he says? He said how do you know I’m not doing something for you. But he didn’t make anything. Isn’t taking me out and didn’t buy me a gift. So he’s literally probably planning to make me breakfast. No meat is defrosting for him to make me dinner tomorrow. Nothing.