Anyone have a toddler at home too?

This is my second boy (4 weeks) and my first is almost 3.

I feel bad for my toddler bc I can’t spend the time I used to spend with him.

It’s tough and he is acting out. He is doing everything for attention (throwing things, not listening) and unfortunately starting to like a lot of negative reinforcement.

So hard to juggle the two right now! I know it will get better and I know it was a big change for the toddler plus he is probably going thru terrible 2s/3s as well but still hard.

Anyone else having this struggle?