My Parents want to send me to boarding school

Hi everyone my family wants me to go to boarding school in Germany.

My mother and grandmother have all went to the same all girl boarding school I will be going to and they really want me to go, as most girls from high ranking families do.

I went to the open day a few years ago and hated it but i don’t want to disappoint them and they want me to go.

Also my family is all German and Austrian and they wish for me to come to Germany but I not sure that I want too. My family has a history in the military and high society and it would not just upset my family but the wider high society would not be pleased if I did not go to Germany.

What should I do?

Any ideas or opinions on this would be appreciated.