am I consider a mom if I had a miscarriage?

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Honestly it's up to you and only you.

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What is the definition of a mum? What makes a mym? 
If it is being pregnant and giving birth, then what about women that adopted but never given birth themselves? 
If it is woman that actually care for a child, then what about woman that give their child up for what ever reason? 
If it's that you say no because the fetus died then from when is it a kid? From the moment you feel it kicking or maybe when you feel connected. And is it not possible that someone feels connected from the first time they know there us a human growing in them, I know I did. 
So I think it is up to the one that suffers the miscarriage to decide if they feel like a mum. Some women may some may not. But for sure no one has the right to tell anyone else if they are a mum or not. Mums come in all size and shapes.

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Do not take what these people say to heart at all. You was pregnant there was a baby inside you no matter how far along you where so that makes you a mother. I have a family member who lost a baby very early in pregnancy and she still thinks about her baby thats in heaven. So yes you are a mother. You will never forget that baby that got her/his angel wings.

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I guess in my personal opinion it would depend on far along the miscarriage occurred. I don’t want anyone to take any of what I say the wrong way as we all have different views and these are just mine. I feel like if the miscarriage was early than I wouldn’t consider that woman to be a mom. On the other hand if it occurred later in the pregnancy then I do. I had a very close friend of mine lose her son at 32 weeks and I still wished her a happy Mother’s Day. I don’t want to seem cold because EVERY loss is sad and I feel for every woman who has gone through that (my sister had 2 consecutive before she had my nephew and I would apply this same logic to her) when I say this because every woman deserves to feel amazing but I personally can’t consider someone a mother just for carrying a child, especially for a short amount of time, just because there is so much more that goes into being a mother than just carrying a child. 
Again this isn’t meant to upset anyone this is just how I feel and it isn’t meant to invalidate anyone else.

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I had several miscarriages and I considered myself a mom. From the time I got a positive test I did everything to protect that baby in my womb. They were still my babies.
Only you can define if you are a mom or not after loss.

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I voted no because that's my personal opinion unless it's past the point of viability and considered a still born

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I don’t really think someone’s a mom until the baby is born. Like while you’re pregnant most people even refer to you as a mom-to-be. Whatever helps you cope though

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I had 3 miscarriages after my son and before my daughter but I only count myself as a mom of 2. So just depends on you.

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I voted ‘no’ because most of our community will not consider you a mom if you don’t have a living born child. 
BUT personally I would say yes,  you are a mom after a MC.

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It’s not up to the world to determine if you’re a mother or not hun, you don’t need to have a successful pregnancy or a live child to be ‘considered’ a mum 💕 A loss is a loss no matter how early, hugs 💖

am I consider a mom if I had a miscarriage?

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