Weight Gain, BMI 30+

Hi! I am currently 19 weeks (due 10/12) and am wondering how everyone’s weight gain is going? I lost about 15lbs in my first trimester; and have now gained back almost 3lbs. I am overweight and in the obese category for BMI, but I’m wondering how much or little I should be gaining within the second trimester 🤷🏻‍♀️ my doctor said don’t be scared that I will start gaining weight pretty rapidly from my 16 week appointment, and said I can gain up to 25lbs total. But now wondering am I gaining too little? Or too much? Lol Also getting anxious because I haven’t felt our baby girl kick yet and still not really showing 😩 just getting impatient really!