Non judgemental advice please🙏🏼

This is potentially gonna be a long story so grab a snack before you start reading lol. I typically don’t air out my dirty laundry on the internet, I’m a pretty private person but I’m feeling extremely overwhelmed with my current situation and would really love some advice from people who don’t personally know me. I’m 26 and a single mom to a 3 1/2 year old little boy. I’ve been with my current boyfriend for 7 months. We moved quickly in our relationship and live together. Let me start that portion out by saying he is wonderful to me and so so good with my son which is why I’m struggling. There are things over the last couple months of living together that are starting to bother me, a lot. Things that were not an issue in the beginning but are now. I guess not living together you don’t get to see things first hand so it doesn’t bother you.

1. He is laaaazy. He got laid off the day before we moved into the house we are renting and has barely looked for a job. We have lived together 3 MONTHS. He’s paid his portion of the bills but the lack of motivation from a man who is almost 30 just irritates me like no other. I am not used to that at all in a relationship. I have to constantly ask him to do little things that he clearly notices at home while he is sitting around all day. It feels like having another child at home. I have discussed this with him and he apologizes but there’s no real change.

2. Our sex life. I feel bad for even saying this but it’s horrible. We haven’t done anything in a month. The issue is, he doesn’t try to please me whatsoever. He will go down on me for a min and then stick his 🍆 in and he lasts maybe 30 seconds no exaggeration AT ALL. Again I’ve never experienced this. In previous relationships they’ve always made it a point to take care of me and then we do all the fun stuff and are both satisfied and happy. With him I have 0 desire because of how he goes about it. I’ve talked with him about this as well and he gets extremely defensive. Even after the talks nothing has changed and I don’t see the sex getting better. He just acts like there isn’t a problem.

Overall I love him a lot and he’s a sweetheart but moving in together has been an eye opener. I don’t want to leave him but I’m stuck. I don’t feel that I am as happy as I should be and it’s causing me to be irritable and distant with him. He can tell something is wrong but I just don’t want to keep repeating myself.

The biggest issue of all is I’m 7 weeks pregnant. I have a great full time 50 hours a week job but obviously it’s tough to move right now if it came to that so I’m feeling stuck. Am I wasting my time? What else can I do? 😔