How do you feel attractive as you age

How do you have positive body image, good self esteem.

I notice women change significantly from when they were teens

It's hard to love yourself I see all these beautiful women on TV and online and I have even looked at porn stars the porn stars they have significantly changed to become more attractive with plastic surgery.

There's this big plastic surgery numbers on women getting nose jobs, breast enlargement, labiaplasty, lip injections, cheekbone injections so it's like they are trying to achieve this look it is beautiful but at what cost plastic surgery can be dangerous, not everyone can afford.

There have been women that have plastic surgery to look like Kim Kardashian, some to look like Barbie or Angelina Jolie it's like they have this idea that those people are beautiful and to look more beautiful they need surgery. That's where I feel like women are feeling like they aren't feminine enough if they don't have large breast or look a certain way.

Also there's this thing that youth is beautiful they hire models in there teens and how do you love yourself as you age when being young is the ideal image like 18-25 years old

So how do you love yourself when you don't look like the ideal women that's advertised on billboards like Victoria secret models?