Do you trust your partner when he/she is alone with her/his parents ?

Question

My in laws are super toxic and I hate when my husband is alone with them bc they just tell them shit so he does what they want and things , But yes I know there his parents and he will always see them.

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If your partner is that easily manipulated by their parents why deal with that anyway? He is old enough to know better, old enough to recognize the patterns.
If he has to be monitored with his own parents then basically you’re babysitting.

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His mother bothers me I mean she's nice and seems to like me but I just get uncomfortable because she's cheated on multiple of her partners and covered for her daughter while her daughter cheated on her bf of 6 years, her daughter would tell her bf she was at her mom's but go see another dude and her mom would back up her story so it makes me wonder if she'd do the same for my fiance and allow him to cheat on me I'd be really upset especially since we have a daughter together

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Yes, my husband and I trust each other with both of our families. If he’s easily manipulated or making huge decisions without you than a conversation needs to be had about not making big decisions/promised without you. If that doesn’t happen and you’re worried than it’s an insecurity/issue you need to deal with.

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Ummmm... yes???? And if my husband ever told me he doesn’t trust me around my parents, I’d be livid!!! Or laugh in his face. Idk either way lol 
If his parents are truly that toxic, he would cut them off don’t you think??

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Let him be with his family. If you hate his family that much you don’t trust him with them, do both of y’all a favor and don’t be with him. My SO doesn’t like my family, and he would get annoyed at me when I spend time with them. He can not like them all he wants, but when he treated me like he didn’t trust me with my FAMILY of all people, it started causing problems for us. His issue is my family is very religious and conservative he doesn’t want it to rub off on me. Uh, I was raised that way lol. I chose my life and it’s no secret we have different views. So it’s like he’s saying he doesn’t trust me to stay the same person I am? He also thinks I act differently, bc I don’t swear around them and am not really on my phone. I don’t swear a lot in general but both those I think are just disrespectful (bc when you’re with someone i want to be spending time with them, not constantly texting him, and I’m not going to swear in front of my family when that will offend them - it’s not going to hurt anyone not to swear). It caused problems (and still does at times) bc he’d make a huge issue about it and it was so stressful for a while.

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I mean, he grew up with them and was alone with them for a lot of years before you came along, and you married him. Must not be too bad. 
He is an adult with a mind of his own, so his decisions are his own. He’s your problem, not the inlaws.

Do you trust your partner when he/she is alone with her/his parents ?

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