Hey! So I’ve always had a pretty high sex drive. Twice a week is ideal. My husband and I have been super busy so we’ve recently started scheduling sex once a week. It’s great when we actually do follow through, but it often happens that it falls through and we’ll go up to a month without having sex. The thing is during all of this my SO will still masturbate. I’m totally fine with him doing it, but I do get frustrated when I’m abstaining so we can have super hot sex only to find that he’s been taking care of himself frequently. Of course then I’m just like “well I guess I’ll break out my vibe then” because at this point I can almost expect our plans to fall through. We’re super young too so it does make me worried in regards to our sex life in the future. Other than this, our marriage is perfect. I still can’t help but feel insecure about it tho bc it seems that he’d rather DIY it than just fuck me. We’ve talked about the not having frequent sex side before but still things are the same. It’s also hard because I know that there are so many other people out there that would be super eager to have sex with me but it seems my husband is just.... not? I’m young, I’m hot. I’m his type. I just don’t get it. It hurts