So me and my boyfriend have been in a relationship for 3 years now. I moved in with him November of 2020 cause I was pregnant and had covid and he wanted to keep an eye on me. I had my baby in December. He's first daughter. We were good, over the moon. But that didn't last. We moved from a small apartment to a bigger one. But throughout the whole process he would just ignore me or get mad at all. Fast forward to now. We are all moved in. Everything is in place. I still feel him distant. The week prior he worked and got out went to bar. Which is fine. I typically pick him. But this time he left the bar which he was at to go to another after I told him. I was on the way. He went to a bar where he's exs , prior to me, works. And I called him to tell him im.going to pick him up. He yelled at me... "just go the effe home and efffe off" and hangs up the phone. I went to back to my house to sleep cause I was not going to fight. My boyfriend also was looking for a new job. He's ex,same one hw went to bar, reached out to him for a job at the other place she works. For an interview. He didn't tell me anything until the day of the interview. I have nothing against him looking for a new job, even if its with her. She has personal problem with me for whatever reason. I have never spoke to the woman.

But... I know that I shouldn't have.... but something didn't feel right.... I went through his phone....

He was being all flirty and so was she. Which okay granted he was drunk. But SHE wasn't. Turns out she didn't even work the day he was at the bar.

And I just checked He's phone again , sorry not sorry, but he was texting He's friend and he's friend said take the job because there's nothing worse than being in a miserable marriage and job.... which he replied to as im in BOTH.

My heart is hurting. I know I shouldn't have looked and I kind of had asked for it by going through it. But now knowing this I don't know what to do...

Should I move out with the baby? Or talk to him about he's feelinga? Which I know he won't admit. I just thought things were getting better for us... and I had hope we would have a relationship where we grow old together...

I really just don't know what to do