Life after a miscarriage

We had a miscarriage in early Feb (I was almost 6 weeks and we had just found out).

Since then, we haven’t been the same, sexually speaking.

I admitted to my husband that I find that I can’t relax and enjoy being intimate. The thought of having another miscarriage haunts me.

My husband can’t seem to be at “attention” for the act itself. It feels like my marriage is slipping away.

Also, this isn’t my husband first loss- this is his 3rd.

2 were before we got together.

I’ve been seeing a therapist for the last year and she’s great.

Thankfully I was already established with her when we had our miscarriage.

But has this happened to anyone else?

We can’t be alone with the traumatic and unfortunate event.