Am I being unreasonable?

Question

So long story short me and this guy have been dating a few months and it’s been going great except our schedules are crazy. He has two kids I have one and we work the same job on different shifts so we have opposite days off. Anyways, we usually plan on one of us coming over after work and we get 4-5 hours together until our schedules change at the end of July. The problem is he cancels so much. For example we had plans for him to come over on a Saturday after I got off and he was running late with his errands so I suggested he come Sunday instead, well he ended up falling asleep and not coming. This has happened a few times, frequently so I’ll possibly see him twice during the week when we had at least 4-5 days planned. He does make a effort to talk to me most of the day though, even at while he’s at work but I still feel like the distance is getting to me. Today it happened again and I just didn’t say anything the rest of the day..he messaged me twice and I just ignored it and now I’m starting to feel like maybe I’m being unreasonable, what do y’all think?

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I think when you work a full time job and have kids it’s hard to manage seeing someone 4-5 days a week. I have one child and see my boyfriend every other weekend plus once or twice during the week for a few hours. Maybe we WANTS to see you that often but is finding it hard to keep up. Talk to him and see how he feels. Maybe you can compromise on three days a week but ask him not to cancel? I personally couldn’t date someone who says they are coming over but falls asleep repeatedly on me. That just wouldn’t work for me. Good luck!

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I don’t think it’s unreasonable for you to feel this way, but it also doesn’t sound like he’s TRYING to blow you off. 
It just sounds like you guys really are on two different schedules.

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Nope why put in effort to someone that won't ever put effort in for you find someone that no matter what will find time my hubby and I ehen we were 16 worked the same job never had the same day off I worked 8 hours 6days a week and went to school my hubby worked two jobs but still found time for me to come over and to call or text and ask me how school was how work was and if I needed anything. We are now 19 with a 4month old I work 5days a week 6am to 3pm my hubby works 5days a week 3pm to 2am. His days off are Thursday and Friday mine are Saturday and Sunday. Every week my hubby finds time to cook me a nice dinner and remind you we still have a 4month old so sleep Is a no go right now. I stopped fucking with ones that wouldn't find time or even want to try and find time. Drop his ass and get you some appreciation and a man that will want you even when things are crazy busy!!!

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Ugh. Just got out of a 6.5 year relationship with a guy just like this. I promise it doesn't end.. Ever.

Am I being unreasonable?

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