My parents are mad I'm getting divorced

Me and my husband are getting divorced. I found out he was cheating and a while back I cheated. We fight, we cheat, we lie. We were never in love with each other. We were just friends, but our parents were close and stuff. Basically we had an arranged marriage at 16. It was for a business reason we got married and at 16 I had no idea you didn't have to get married if you didn't want to. Our parents just started telling us when we were like 10 we needed to get married at 16 and then have a baby. The baby never happened and we did try for a while. After getting married our friendship eventually turned to hating each other. We were married when we weren't in love then our parents pressuring us to have a baby (again business reason but I'm not going into it). A couple months ago we were arguing and yelling and I told him I hated him and he said "THEN WHY ARE WE STILL MARRIED!!!" And we both realized... Why TF are we still married. This isn't midevil times where we had to get married.... For the first time in 11 years we realized... Our parents manipulated the fuck out of us! We were bed friends and now we hate each other. I currently live with one of my friends while we are going through this divorce and our parents are pissed at us. Mainly because we didn't bring a baby to the table to now we are divorcing. My mom threaten to take me out of her will if we divorce. We are at war with our parents now. We should have known divorcing was gonna be easier said then done because it's started a lot of bullshit. Our entire family is turning on both of us and I'm starting to wonder if this divorce is even a good idea anymore...

Edit: The reason I'm wondering if this divorce is a good idea has nothing to do with our parents money but the fact that they are making both our life hell! I know this divorce is best and we will most like still go through. I'm just acknowledging if they already are going to war with us now, when it's finalized all hell will break loose