My boyfriend annoys the crap out of me lately. I been brushing it off that his room is a mess and my car is a mess. He’s been using my car because his is at the shop. Omg one thing that turns me off about him. He’s a messy person. I constantly tell him how dirty the car is. He always makes excuse how he works all day he doesn’t have a chance to clean the car but he’s gets home at 5pm and has the weekends off. I don’t live with him but omg it still annoys me that we have to cuddle in a dirty room. He always has his dirty clothes on the floor. Im someone who grew up in very clean house super clean. My mom was always on it about keeping the house clean and cleaning our room every morning. So I’m use to cleaning. So today I had my day off I’ve decided to catch up on my laundry and cleaning. I helped out my dad with cleaning because he wasn’t feeling so good. My boyfriend took the day off unexpectedly. He expected me to drop my things for him. Which no Im not going to do that. My dad health’s comes first and he needs the help. So I told my boyfriend I’ll see you at 2 the latest but I didn’t know my midterm would take so long. I finished two midterms in a day after tht I had to make myself breakfast and clean. I been up since 6am. He’s upset with me because I can’t do my errands with him because I choose to clean. Now he’s being short and petty with me. It’s not my fault I’m a clean person. It just annoys me how he expects me to drop everything. He tells me cleaning doesn’t take all day. He wouldn’t know that because his mom does the cleaning on the house and feeds his dog. I have to feed my dog groom him and everything. I have so my own laundry I have to do my own cleaning. So 🤷🏽‍♀️ I make him clean when he’s with me or he asks me for help I say yes right away because I don’t want to think once we live together it’s okay for him to sit around and do nothing. Which I’m afraid he’s not going to change. It can break us.