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My boyfriend annoys the crap out of me lately. I been brushing it off that his room is a mess and my car is a mess. Heās been using my car because his is at the shop. Omg one thing that turns me off about him. Heās a messy person. I constantly tell him how dirty the car is. He always makes excuse how he works all day he doesnāt have a chance to clean the car but heās gets home at 5pm and has the weekends off. I donāt live with him but omg it still annoys me that we have to cuddle in a dirty room. He always has his dirty clothes on the floor. Im someone who grew up in very clean house super clean. My mom was always on it about keeping the house clean and cleaning our room every morning. So Iām use to cleaning. So today I had my day off Iāve decided to catch up on my laundry and cleaning. I helped out my dad with cleaning because he wasnāt feeling so good. My boyfriend took the day off unexpectedly. He expected me to drop my things for him. Which no Im not going to do that. My dad healthās comes first and he needs the help. So I told my boyfriend Iāll see you at 2 the latest but I didnāt know my midterm would take so long. I finished two midterms in a day after tht I had to make myself breakfast and clean. I been up since 6am. Heās upset with me because I canāt do my errands with him because I choose to clean. Now heās being short and petty with me. Itās not my fault Iām a clean person. It just annoys me how he expects me to drop everything. He tells me cleaning doesnāt take all day. He wouldnāt know that because his mom does the cleaning on the house and feeds his dog. I have to feed my dog groom him and everything. I have so my own laundry I have to do my own cleaning. So š¤·š½āāļø I make him clean when heās with me or he asks me for help I say yes right away because I donāt want to think once we live together itās okay for him to sit around and do nothing. Which Iām afraid heās not going to change. It can break us.
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