How would you feel about this comment?

Met some of my husbands closest friends a couple days ago And they invited us over for dinner. I’m the kind of girl who likes intimate settings with a small group of people and tend to be shy when there’s a lot of people. My kind of friends are typically the non rowdy ones and very respectful when expressing themselves. I’m not the type to hang around people with a dirty mouth and say things that just aren’t for me. Anyway, his friends had a couple come over who were very nice but just didn’t match my energy. It got to a point where I wasn’t interested in the conversation because it was about cocaine and I just didn’t want to participate tbh. I was very cold so I sat next to the heater and was enjoying my time outdoors with my husband next to me. I looked at my phone a little bit just to browse. My husband sensed I was uncomfortable and said we would go home. We had a talk in the car and I said I enjoyed my time and they were very nice. He called me out on looking at my phone (which he does all the time and I Can him out too but never in a mean way) and he said “ i could be wrong but I’m pretty sure my friends think you’re a bitch”. I was shocked that I was spoken to this way because I did nothing wrong? I was just enjoying myself and that comment through me off. He said his friends looked over at us several times but I literally didn’t notice. He really cares a lot about his friends feel instead of his wife. Anyway, the next day his friend apologized for the way one of his friends was talking and said he noticed I was uncomfortable. Only then did my husband feel better and said he was glad his friend said that.

I just feel hurt being spoken to this way and have told him many times to think twice about the things he says to me. I am not interested in being with someone who doesn’t speak with respect. Just want an outside opinion on how this would make you feel and if the feelings I have are valid.