Husband won’t listen to my feelings

Anytime I want to express myself to my husband he thinks I’m trying to start an argument. If there’s anything I want to say that I felt uncomfortable with or didn’t really like and want to have his take on it he just says “ok” and acts all pissed off. He just stays silent when he’s irritated but thinks I’m trying to start something. All I said today was “hey I felt uncomfortable when this happened” and he just talked to me as if I’m a drama seeker and didn’t even want to maybe change my mind about how I interpreted what happened. It leaves me overthinking a lot and all the “what if’s” because a lot of things I say are left hanging and I feel like a total idiot for expressing myself. Maybe I am a drama starter after all but I don’t mean to be. I avoid nasty confrontation and always approach in a calm voice and just say how I feel. It’s getting to a point where I feel so alone and just not heard. Not sure what to do anymore.