Would you forgive and give him a second chance?
This is a long freaking story! So my boyfriends family invited me over to their house to spend the night. He lives about 69 miles away from me. That’s about 1 hr or so. He lives near the beach so we had lots of plans for today and tomorrow.
I wore a romper with a thin cardigan over my shoulders and cute sandals. He told me we would go to the beach and have lunch there and get a boat to cruise.
This is the romper I wore.

I get there and get off to hug him. The first thing he says is “wtf are you wearing? I knew you would wear your revealing shit?” He told me he would not feel comfortable walking around with my outfit. He said I always want to show off my body. I told him I was trying to look cute for him. He gets off the car and tells me to go back home. Wtf. I start driving and he gets in the middle to stop me from leaving. We talk more and he keeps yelling to go fuck myself. I began to cry! He apologized and told me that some areas in his neighborhood were very ghetto and that he felt really uncomfortable. I told him I was sorry! He said he hates when men stare and he hugged me!
On our way to the beach, he stops by a liquor store and he comes empty handed. I asked what he got and he showed me his pockets and got vodka shots. His little brother was with us. After 2 hours, we find a nice place to eat. There were a couple of guys sitting down and my bf told me “I want you standing near the wall” he said he didn’t want my “ass facing the guys”
At this point I was so freaking annoyed. I went off on him and told him “you’re being pathetic. I bet you check out girls”
He got more angry and told me I’m being overly
Jealous.
We order and I’m waiting with his little brother. There’s another liquor store across the restaurant and he goes there. I asked his little brother why he went. He just shook his head and said he wasn’t sure. My bf comes back empty handed. I asked him again why he went. He showed me his pockets and told me “nothing babe” he had nothing. Maybe he went to buy gum idk??
He leans in to kiss me and he smells like alcohol. I ask why he smelled like alcohol and he said from the drink before. I told him it was 2 hours ago. He got upset and said to let him enjoy his food. He said “it’s the weekend, it’s just a drink “
We get back home and I get my car keys and told him I wouldn’t spend the night. He called me crying but I felt like he was not happy I was there. He looked like he was in another world. We had sex! At that point it just felt like he was interested in sex only.
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