What’s wrong with him?

Whenever I talk to my husband or call him out on something in a calm way he tells me I’m accusing him for something completely different. Even when it comes to family he takes things the wrong way. My dad called and wanted to say hello and my dad said “hey it’s been a while since we spoke we are like strangers” obv in a non serious way. He then gets mad and starts whispering “wtf” and when he gets off the phone he said that my dad is accusing him of not reaching out all bc he’s busy. I just don’t understand how he interprets things in the opposite way and it gets on my nerves. It’s literally always something. I just can’t stand him sometimes and how he thinks everything means something completely different. He’s just so dumb I can’t believe it.