What to do about face hair 😭

So I’ve always had I’d say more than “normal” facial hair, but it has always been just like peach fuzz- thin blonde hairs. When I got pregnant with my son I noticed I started getting black hairs on my chin which I tweezed and was able to keep it under control. After he was born it continued but was still manageable. But I recently got off of my birth control and its has just kept growing to the point where I’m tweezing every day and still have stubbles 😭 if I go more than a few days I have almost a full blown lady beard. I’m afraid treating will only make it worse. Any recommendations?