Do you have a dom/sub kink

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If so do you like being dom or sub

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I have a few kinks and that's not one. I like aspects of being a sub. Like part of controlled knife play is relinquishing all "control" to my partner, doing as they tell me to do, total trust at play on both parts but mostly mine, knowing I'm actually in control. I like being tied up and choked. We have safe words and tap outs. If I safe word or tap out, all activity immediately ceases and aftercare immediately takes place. But... outside of sexual acts I don't enjoy being told what to do. Hubs tested the waters once by barking an order at me, I whipped around at lightning speed and told him "don't fucking talk to me like that!" So I'd probably be a brat for damn sure. I don't like people having authority over me in every day life. Just during sex.

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I was a dominatrix years ago, but my current partner, he likes it rough, so it’s kind of different with him, we actually take turns being in control, but what I loved about him was that he has a very dominant personality, he dominates at his job, he’s a strong powerful man, and it was a turn on, watching him work and in a suit, it’s like watching a porno. With him I don’t mind being submissive but with anyone else I always had to be the dominant one, call the shots, you name of the ball in my court, but with him I’ve known him 20 years, But we take turns. We take turns being on top, it’s at such a turn on when he presses me up against the wall and makes out with me when he first sees me and grabs all over me etc. we have that daddy stepdaughter vibe, I’m 42 and he’s 16 years older than me, but I look like I’m half my age. So it totally works, I realized when I was 40 that I had daddy issues, so it totally works.￼

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Sub. I like being under my partner’s control and him using me for his pleasure. Such a turn on to know I’m satisfying him and is often the mental push to “get me there”. I am more about giving than receiving by far. But like someone else mentioned, that’s for bedroom only. I am not for misogyny and will not let anyone just walk all over me outside of the bedroom at all.

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I'm a sub and I love it

Do you have a dom/sub kink

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