Is he wrong for sending her pu*** pictures around? Honest opinions 👀

So a friend of mine went to some girl on instagram to get her first Brazilian wax… I specifically told her NOT to do this. Sounded like a disaster from the jump. I even offered to go with her to a reputable place & sit outside until she was done since I won’t be getting another one until right before delivery. She never took me up on my offer. Well… long story short she went to this Instagram lady’s house & got a “vagical” basically a vagina facial 😭 or whatever- some new trend women are doing lol. The lady has her vagina posted in 5 different views on her Instagram page basically showing the results. Somehow someway her now EX-boyfriend screenshot all the pictures & are sending them around as like a nude. Im going to be honest- they’re not the most attractive pictures. The Vagical showed what looked to be maybe quite a few ingrown scars, lots of bumps and just idk they really weren’t taken at a flattering angle by any means nor did they make her lady parts appear smooth and pretty… I’m honestly shocked she posted them to gain additional clients. My friend even said she had quite a few patches of hair a little longer than stubble AFTER the service. She did write the Instagramer asking her to remove the pics which the lady eventually did after 6 days. My friend admitted that she agreed to take the pics and she also signed some policy contract where according to the Instagram lady it states her clients are OK with her posting pictures to gain clientele. My friend admitted she just signed and never read 🤦🏻‍♀️ She’s getting bullied up the wazu now & she’s extremely embarrassed at multiple boys having seen her vagina. Her ex-bf was her first and only. He broke up with her in a text & according to my friend he’s sending the pics around for a “good laugh.”

Idk ladies- I am having B/G twins as a FTM & this situation has me literally thinking of how I would handle this as a parent on both ends. I feel so bad. Hubby’s just kind’ve like “well.. she should’ve listened to you & the same way he passed the pics around anybody could’ve” so he’s not empathetic at all. He’s basically playing the oh boys will be boys side as if its no big deal. I keep saying “but what if that was our daughter!!” & his response is our daughter wouldn’t be that dumb 🙇🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️ I lowkey agree but I also think about how some teens are just defiant, and people have taken their lives for things like this!

Maybe Its hormones but I just want to cry for this poor girl. Who do you all think is wrong in this situation? What would you say to your child- son (for sending the pics) or daughter (being in this situation) ?

Couple side notes- she turns 18 in a week, exbf is 16. Im saying “my friend” to protect her identity… she’s more of my 18 y/o nieces friend, however, she reached out to me to share this story because she is just emotionally distraught and to share that she think she may be pregnant which makes it even worse 😒