God mother drama

I asked a very close friend of mine of 7 years if she would like to be my baby’s god mother and she said yes. Now that I’m towards the end of my pregnancy she has been M.I.A. for almost 3 weeks. I called and texted her to check up on her but all she says that she is fine. She started acting like this because I told her that my boyfriend will be sleeping over after I come home from the hospital and she didn’t need to anymore, for cultural purposes the father and I do not want anyone besides my family and his family to visit in the hospital and when I get home from the hospital. When she said she wanted to sleep over she said my boyfriend better not be there and I said no he will be there because it’s our baby.

Before I said all of that she said that she had bought the baby stuff and postpartum stuff from target and Amazon. It’s been 3 weeks and I asked her if the baby stuff came in yet since I get induced June 17th which she knew three weeks ago and she said no. I told her I’ll buy a diaper bag and return it when the stuff comes in and she said no that’s fine I canceled it and stopped talking to me again.

Do you guys seem to have an idea why shes acting like that? She’s the baby’s godmother but I can’t have someone like her that lies about doing things and catching attitudes because she doesn’t respect my decision for me and my baby.

Should I give her a month to see what she does since it would be 2 months all together from the time she went M.I.A during the end of my pregnancy and a month after I give birth. My parents think I should change the godmother because of her actions. She knows I’m getting induced in a few days. I just feel hurt that she would do this to me.

EDIT: I forgot to add this but homegirl would catch an attitude when I would tell her no for shaving me down there. She would ask if I need help and that she can do it and I said I can do it I’m fine but if I can’t I’ll have my boyfriend do it. She would catch an attitude and get mad. I never asked her to help me shave but she would bring it up all the time.

UPDATE:

Hi Ladies! There was a typo in my post, induction is on June 15th not June 17th. I went to my last ultrasound appointment and they pushed my induction date till next Tuesday. I haven’t talked to my friend and she hasn’t reached out today, June 15th. She knows that I’m originally supposed to be getting induced today, June 15th, and she never sent me a text or called me. I didn’t tell her that my induction date got pushed for another week since she has been completely M.I.A.